Friends and People Stuff!!!
WHAT IT MEANS TO BE GT…WE’RE GT ON THE INSIDE, TOO.
Gang, Check out the website at the right–Hoagies’ Website for Gifted Kids. This is FOR YOU and there’s everything there from fun and games to personal issues that you’re worried about. Lots of resources. There’s even information for your family! But, mostly, it’s all for YOU!
WHAT’S BEING LABELED GT GOT TO DO WITH ANYTHING?
We know we’re different. That’s a big reason why GT exists! It’s about intellectual capacities, absolutely. That’s the first issue that brings students into a GT center. But, then there’s this other stuff…the stuff that we spend time thinking about, worrying about…and sometimes this stuff boils into issues that we are very, very sensitive about–FRIENDS, FRIENDSHIPS, AND RELATIONSHIPS IN GENERAL WITH OTHER PEOPLE!
We are just looking at life with some very different lenses on than some other folks…you know what I mean? I am thinking we all need a spot to download some of those thoughts. First off…anybody out there just feel different? You feel like you’re not like other people? I’m happy to go first with this one because let me just say right now that I definitely do not feel like other people. When I look at other people interacting, I do not feel that I fit into the mold that has people hanging out together! When in conversations with folks from dinner parties with grown-ups to talking to somebody in a store, etc…you know…grown-up interactions…my thoughts are often different than the people I’m talking to. My feelings are often different and unexplainable to others that I’m interacting with. And I often feel shy or put-out to even open up and tell people all of the crazy ideas that are racing through my mind 100 mph! They certainly will think I’m as freakish as I think of myself!
So, are you alone? No. Anybody out there with feelings or thoughts like that? Friendship woes?
Because nice matters…
Let’s discuss it. And this is a touchy area, so everybody keep their most polite communication skills on full power so we don’t hurt one another’s feelings, ok? I know you can do it! You’re all remarkably good hearted people.
Let’s see if we’re all feeling just a little bit different from time to time…or a lot of the time, like me!!